Saturday, September 18, 2010

HECK.

Was loitering around in Facebook and chanced upon this on my Homepage. This girl (stranger) actually created an album and posted a handful of pictures like the one below.


Like, WHAT?!

I'm appalled at the sight of this and was astounded at the same time. It's just ridiculously stupid. Yes, I'm referring to ANYONE who's still using this method to destress.

Firstly, yeah, we can tell you're grieved. Some guy probably dumped you or you have some issues in life. You need to relieve some stress and vent your frustrations out. But by harming your own body, you're actually bringing MORE problems into your life, demoralising yourself and lowering your self-esteem. Please, there's so much way to relieve stress! Why resort to this?

Get a life and wake up, everyone out there knows that this physical damage won't solve a single thing.

Secondly, she proudly showed it to everyone by uploading these photos on Facebook, a social site that even a 10 year old could have access to. So what are you trying to prove? That you're very zai cause you tahan-ed the pain? Or you want to gain sympathy and wants everyone to be sorry for you? Please, stop seeking attention. It's irritating.

Just like gravity, life has their ups and downs. Whatever goes up must come down. Nobody has and will live a life of pure, plain smoothness throughout till the day they breathed their last. Everyone will meet some challenges in their life one day and it's up to you to decide how you want to face it. You have got to accept it, there's no other alternative. All these challenges makes you stronger as you climb and overcome each step, which makes life interesting! Imagine a life whereby everything moves at constant speed. Ain't that boring?

So overall, your mindset is the key to everything. You choose which path you want to take yourself, nobody can force you. So here's a note to people out there who're still hurting their precious body.

Stop it. Stop degrading yourself. People will look down on and despise you. Stop trying to attract attention cause nobody will sympathise you.